There are great lessons to be learn from the ancient parable of the six blind men from Indostan as they are introduced to an elephant for the first time. Each describes the part of the elephant they are introduced to, yet none of them have the whole picture. Thus, while they are all partially right, they are still all wrong. What if we each stop clinging to our partial truth, and step back to see the big picture and the whole truth!!
So often, we give up what we want MOST for what we want right NOW. If what we really want is to be our most physically healthy self and we eat a bunch treats along the way, we are ultimately choosing those treats we want now over what we want most-our ideal weight. If what we want most is a peaceful home, let's stop screaming and yelling about the little stuff and focus on the big goal of PEACE.
To focus on the thorns, denies us of the true beauty the rose has to offer. People also have thorns of sorts. We are all imperfect. When we choose to focus on those thorns, we deny ourselves of the opportunity to really be enriched by the beauty they have to offer.
Service opportunities come in many forms. Some are much bigger than others, but the biggest impact is made as we take action and do something! Join with me in this podcast to learn how the Everill family has used their family and their business to unite other families year after year!
The holiday season can be so fun and magical as we have opportunity to interact with so many people. It can also be stressful. Maybe you aren't the traditional family. Maybe you are forced to interact with people who aren't nice to you. Learn how to navigate it all!
Even DIVORCE is completely neutral until you have a thought about it. My sister, Debbie Kerr, joins me on this podcast her share her story of leading with compassion through a messy divorce. She learned to show compassion to herself, her children AND even to her soon-to-be-ex.
It's our responsibility as parents to teach and to keep our children safe. Our greatest chances of being successful in this mission is to act out of love instead of anger; set clear boundaries and rules; and to remember we are working in synergy with our Heavenly Father to help guide these children back to him.
Please join me and my super spunky and down to earth neice, Rachel, as we discuss what being a teenager is like in today's world and how parents can best support their teenagers through it all. Ever wondered how divorce affects teenagers and how they navigate their way through it? Do you have teenagers that fight? Rachel has some solid advice based on real experience!
How often are we left angry and frustrated about what other SHOULD do or not do? Maybe your right!! AND maybe it ultimately brings more happiness and peace to just let people be who they are!! join me on this episode as we focus on setting clear boundaries, learning to say "no," and dropping the head drama as we love people for who they are--perfectly imperfect.
You in the middle of a divorce? Your kid just came out of the closet and unveiled same sex attraction? Many times, life throws us curve balls and challenges come our way. We have no power to change those situations AND THAT'S OKAY!! We hold the power over the perspective we choose to focus on and that's the only power tool we need!
Margaret Arnold is not only a distant relative, but more importantly a great friend. I love getting advice from more mature people who have been through what I'm going through. Margaret has simple and wise advice to help us prepare our kids to be mission ready whether or not they choose to serve. She also has great ideas for supporting them while they serve. There are great golden nuggets here for ALL PARENTS!!
We aren't going to give teenagers car keys without so much as a driving lesson, NOR should we hand them a cell phone without guidelines and lessons on using one safely. Cell phones can be a huge influence for good in our lives when used properly. Let's empower our teenagers to use their agency for their good by lovingly setting rules together and enforcing them.
We don't always have control over our circumstances, but we always have control over how we react to them. Sometimes, we just need to process pain before we find the thought that will lead us back to happiness. Trials are not a speedbump in the game of life, they are an integral part of life. It's how we handle them that defines our character!!!